Aug 13

Seven men were arraigned this month for the murder of a Pensacola, FL couple in their home. The slain couple, Byrd and Melanie Billings, were well-known in the community because in addition to their own four biological children, they had also adopted 13 special needs children. Nine of those children were sleeping in the house when their adoptive parents were murdered.

It’s difficult to imagine the traumatic effect this crime will have on those children, who are now orphaned once again. Author Chelsey Shannon can imagine it, unfortunately, at least a little bit. After losing her mother to cancer at the age of six, Chelsey came home from a normal school day when she was 13 years old to find out that her father had been murdered during a robbery attempt. Chelsey became an orphan and a teen in crisis just days before her 14th birthday.

“I thought I had known distraction before, but nothing compared to my total inability to consider anything else but my father and his death,” Shannon writes in her book, titled “Chelsey,” which recounts the murder of her father and her effort to rebuild her life as a teenager without parents.

“In the beginning, I’d thought the grief would kill me – that it would be just too much to bear,” Chelsey says in her book. “I was alone. My family told me again and again I was not, but without him, I was. I was no longer anyone’s child.”

Grief is a difficult emotional process for anyone. But psychologists have found that often when death is sudden or violent, those left behind often experience a different kind of grief called “traumatic bereavement,” which is more complex because of the additional fear and horror associated with the tragic nature of the incident that caused the death.

Although there are many national support groups available for parents who have lost children to crime, there is not as much support easily accessible to children who have lost parents to crime. And when crime leaves a child without any parents at all, like it did with the Billings children in Florida, there are additional feelings of abandonment and betrayal, and very few resources to help these children cope with the extreme complexity of their loss.

Shannon hopes that her book will be one of those resources. Because it contains some very personal writings that Shannon did as part of her own grief process, the book provides unique insights for children of crime victims and orphans. The teen author will also provided additional insights about her book, her struggles, and her emergence from grief during a live web conference event, which was broadcast on more than 30 websites, and has been viewed more than 1,000 times. The teen fielded more than 300 qestions and comments from viewers during that event.

There has been no official statements made yet about the fate of the nine Billings children, or if there is a will with provisions in it about the care of the children in the event that both parents would be murdered in their home by seven men dressed as ninjas. It’s just not the type of situation that most people plan for.

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Aug 10

Three newly published authors, who wrote their books while they were still teenagers, will be the featured speakers in a series of web conferences that are being made available to an international audience this week.

The authors, Marni Bates, Emily Smucker, and Chelsey Shannon were each faced with a life-changing crisis when they were in their teens. Marni, developed trichotillomania (a hair pullng compulsion), Emily was stricken with a chronic and life-threatening illness (West Nile virus), an Chelsey was orphaned after her mother died of cancer and her father was murdered during a robbery. Each of the girls used their writing as a way to move through and get beyond their crisis. What they wrote was so poignant and powerful that it has now been published as part of a series of books called, “Louder Than Words.”

During the live web conferences, each of the girls will talk about their crisis, how they coped, what other teens can learn from their trauma, and how they came to be published at such a young age. Audience members watching the conference from their own computers around the world will be able to interact with the authors in real-time by submitting questions to them through the WebTV chat tool.

A different live conference event is scheduled each night from August 10 – 14 at 8:00 p.m. EST, and is freely available to all internet users. Details about and access to the web conferences are available at the publisher’s website.

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Jul 30

Attention has resurfaced this week for the infamous “Long Island Lolita” incident that fueled a media frenzy back in 1992 in response to the release of Mary Jo Buttafuoco’s new book, “Getting It Through My Thick Skull.” Even though it’s been almost two decades since her ex-husband, Joey’s teenage mistress, Amy Fisher, shot Mary Jo in the head, the attention that the book and its author have received proves that the fascination with her story is still strong.

Why does the media and the public still care about a crime that happened so long ago?

Interviewers are finally asking Mary Jo the questions that the public has also been asking for 17 years. Why did Mary Jo stand by her husband and stay in her marriage for so long? What was it like for her to be in the middle of an international media circus while recovering from a life-threatening attack? What motivated her to publicly forgive Amy Fisher? And why is she writing a book about all of it now?

Mary Jo answers these questions in depth in “Getting It Through My Thick Skull,” which is not only Mary Jo’s first book about the incident, but also the first time she has stepped out of the shadow of her ex-husband, Joey, to tell the story from her own perspective. Mary Jo wrote the book not only to address the unanswered questions about her life, but also to shed some light on the behaviors of her husband, which she has come to believe are sociopathic.

Readers will get Mary Jo’s complete responses to 17 years of unanswered questions in her book. Here’s some of the conversations that’s she’s been having with the media about it this week:

Mary Jo’s Television Interviews:

Mary Jo’s Print Interviews:

Mary Jo’s Radio Interviews

Internet Stories About Mary Jo Buttafuoco And Her Book:

Book Reviews of “Getting It Through My Thick Skull”

More information about “Getting It Through My Thick Skull”

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